Please Do Not Feed The Fears

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As the full impact of Covid19 began to hit globally back in early February, it came as a realisation that leaders who have attended the Institute for Zen Leadership, learning ‘The Ten Flips’ of the Zen Leader were in an excellent position to deal with what was arising. It was as if the moment for Zen Leadership had arrived.

Think of business leaders you know or you’ve seen in the media, who are seizing opportunities and growing as a result, and who is struggling? Which organisations have the agility to learn from the current situation, adapt and thrive, and which have been unable to turn their ships around?

One of the mantras we teach zen leaders is “Live like a ball on fast-moving waters”. This analogy helps leaders to shift from focusing and worrying about external forces they can’t control and instead let go and place their efforts on their internal power. Covid19 is an excellent example as we have seen world leaders being swept downstream on fast-moving waters trying to fight the virus, instead of letting go and working with it, not against it. As Covid 19 has highlighted, it is essential not to become stuck, expecting a return to what we thought as ‘normal’. This invisible, deadly virus has spread fear throughout the world, at the same time as flipping us into a new reality, grounding the entire global airline industry, shutting borders, and causing the most significant worldwide economic downturn ever seen.

The speed with which we can accept what seems to be catastrophic circumstances, the quicker we can see the opportunity and full potential at that moment. Acceptance is not only the beginning ‘Flip’ for the Zen Leader but also the first sign of transformative energy. It doesn’t mean we have to like what we’re dealing with, but it means we don’t become stuck in whether we like it or not, we work with it. As soon as acceptance starts working, it opens up the possibility of further transformation.

Zen Leaders, rather than allowing the pressure to drain their energy, use it to propel their development and ‘Lead the Way’ creating a better world and manifesting a radically new consciousness. These leaders lead beyond their egos and attract the future with joy and enthusiasm. Being able to build and align energy is a foundational tool for sustainable leadership, and ‘Flip Two’ allows the Zen Leader to ease out of ‘Tension’ that holds back growth and into ‘Extension’ the home of opportunity. In this process, the three laws of energy management are a vital resource, the first of which is ‘Rhythm, not relentless’. The Zen Leader understands that this new consciousness emerges in waves, a rhythm of increasing effect and endurance, and becomes skilled at sensing and matching this rhythm and building out from here. We see this with Covid19 as a second wave begins to circulate the globe. The creation of methods that can come and go with each wave of the virus, such as social distancing, wearing masks and testing & trace systems, allows governments to align their energy and vision with a way of working that is intrinsical to the virus, not against it. The Zen leader sees these measures as merely part of the rippling path that lies ahead and continues without resistance.

We develop this rhythm further with Flip 3 by learning to shift from coming to going and going to coming, the art being to identify measures on both sides that tell us when to move. So in the case of a lockdown, the flow becomes going into lockdown, (we have tested and can see the data showing an increase in the virus) and coming out of lockdown, (the data is showing a reduction in the virus spreading). As time passes ease comes into the flow of back and forth allowing us to work with both poles of the paradox and in doing so reaching a higher-level goal, which in these times may be a more sustainable economic model.

Covid19 also demonstrates that we cannot always control what happens to us, but we can forever control our response to it. In Flip 4 the Zen Leader must sincerely inquire into how we play into the situations we face, and what they relate to in us; is our response aggravating, or maybe even building, a position or are we supporting the transformation out of it.” We can ask ourselves ‘What do I fear in this situation?’ Inquiring deeply into this question is to find the root of those fears. Positive, go-getting people may at first think they don’t fear anything, but becoming stuck and not being able to move forward is evidence of fear itself. We know that fear attacks in the dark, and once we begin to discover the root and see our fears, they can no longer get all of us. The good news is that by shining the light of awareness on these, we know the fear is not itself afraid. As Franklin Roosevelt said ‘We have nothing to fear but fear itself”. The Zen Leaders core practice to build this awareness is sitting meditation. Sitting still with all our senses open, we cultivate a condition of complete relaxation and complete awareness, inside and out, all at the same time. Once we claim our power, we’re able to move into it and stand ‘on top’ of the fear. Emanating energy from ‘in here’ and transforming the situation, or problem ‘out there’.

This thread of awareness is a continuing theme through the training and practices of the Zen Leader. Flip 5 builds both self-awareness and understanding of others, taking us, ‘From the ability to Play to Your Strengths whilst Strengthening Your Play’, by utilising a psychometric assessment based on four patterns of energy that show up in our bodies. Awareness in our body gives us conscious access to more of its moving parts and the ability to use and flip us between the energy patterns of Driver, Organiser, Collaborator, and Visionary. That’s why mindfulness in the body is the foundation of training in any martial art or sport, as well as dance, yoga, music, physical therapy and many other forms. This awareness and ability to use physical movement to change our energy pattern allows us to field our best player, pulling up what we call for in the moment rather than a static habitual pattern in which we are stuck and doesn’t serve us. What may have been a winning combination in the pre-Covid19 world may no longer hold true in the Covid19 reality that we currently live.

As the Zen Leader develops using the tools and practices, the capability arises to explore the remaining five flips. These take the Zen Leader ‘From Controlling to Connecting’, ‘From Driving Results to Attracting the Future’, ‘From Its All About Me to I’m All About It’, ‘From Local Self to Whole Self’, and ‘From Delusion to Awakening’. Those who strive for control, and attempt to control their world, going from Controlling to Connecting find freedom, opening up vast new territory for having a broader, more sustainable impact in the world. Those who move ‘From Driving Results to Attracting the Future’ by living in the present, and learning the art of less is more, begin to connect more., and ‘From Its All About Me to I’m All About It’, takes the Zen Leader deep into the realms of how can I serve the situation. The final two flips the ‘Whole Self is Revealed’ widening our net beyond what the mind alone can conceive, and we move ‘From Delusion to Awakening’ discovering a place of stillness in which I and all things arise.

There are no short cuts to the bigness of the Zen Leader, and flipping your world into a new reality of limitless possibilities is only achieved with practice. The key to this practice is returning again and again and doing so with joy and enthusiasm.

PROFESSIONAL BUSINESS & EXECUTIVE COACH

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COVID-19 is disturbing news, yet there is no avoiding it! I know anyone in business or leading a company is feeling it deeply, hard times are here, and you know it is not going to get any easier, at least in the short term.  

Everyone is affected, and I can see the agony on peoples faces and feel their pain listening as they lose control, of their everyday lives. The stories of their businesses collapsing, rent and mortgages not paid, relationships breaking at the strain, and the fear for family and loved ones from Covid-19 itself is heartbreaking. No one has experienced anything like this before. 

Here is how I can help you get through at least some of the pain! 

Zen is one of the most sophisticated & profound ways to change, not just your business but your whole life. I feel my own life’s experiences of both commercial and Zen put me in good stead to help you in these challenging times.

In 2011 after battling the 2008 financial meltdown, I was forced to shut my own business laying off 50 staff which left me financially broke. I couldn’t sleep for many weeks, initially trying to pull my business back and retain my staff. One evening a coach I knew called me up and said a client of his had also been through a similar experience five years before and would I like to talk to him. I didn’t expect much, but when you are down you try to grab every chance you’ve got, right? I was also desperate to share my many worries and concerns with anyone who might give me some insight. The conversation was a real conversation; this guy had walked the walk and was able to talk the talk! I took his words that: “Life continues after death, even within the business field”, and with a glimmer of hope, I would have the courage to pull myself up and start over again.

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Euphoria Explodes

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I witness the city awakening from my mountain top,

Forty floors below Ho Chi Minh sighs,

The cacophony of an ocean arouses my senses, 

no sea to be seen, the city stirs,

I sit in stillness,

Seconds become minutes, minutes become hours,

Stillness so profound and rooted it touches the creator,

Piercing boundless intelligence,

No city, no mountain, no ocean, no self,

Out of nothing a breath stirs a tidal force flows outward,

Grace rides the wave,

Beauty beyond all beauty,

Euphoria explodes, joy spreads, bliss prevails.

#zen #yoga #bliss #euphoria #joy #selfless #truenature #buddha #buddhism #rinzai #soto #vietnam #hochiminhcity

Expect but don’t Expect

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We want things to happen, but they don’t, 

We don’t want things to happen, but they do,

When the don’t comes with do, 

Or the do comes with don’t,

We stamp our feet and shout out loudly, why me!

Tantrum time is here again, anger rising quicker than lighting,

In a flash smooth to rough, calm to chaos, serene to outrage,

Temper runs rampant, like the winds of the ocean,

The storm rages, crashing into everything and one in its path, 

Exhausted the tempest finally gives way,

Disappearing as quickly as it arose, 

Yet leaving the scars of uprooted trees, broken branches and landscapes changed,

Oh for the anger of the storm,

Take heed before setting our sail, and leaving the shore,

Prepare through practice and sit with Anatman,

Emotions still ignite, the ocean will ripple, 

but now the gust dissipates into stillness, 

the inhale turns to exhale,

Expect but don’t expect

#zen #yoga #buddha #buddhism #rinzai #yogateacher #truenature #selfless #livelife #anger #stress #emotions #psychology

In Buddhism, the term Anatta (Pali) or Anatman (Sanskrit) refers to the doctrine of the “non-self”, that there is no unchanging, permanent self, soul or essence in living beings.

Thank you Gordon Hakuun Greene Zen Master & Head Priest of Spring Green Dojo, Wisconsin, for this life-changing teaching, Expect but don’t Expect!

 

Somebody to Nobody

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The journey to be somebody starts the day we are born,

So much hope to become somebody,

My mum and dad, my granny and grandad, my aunts and uncles, my teachers and friends,

Oh how wonderful to be somebody,

I strive so hard, I toil day and night, I sweat blood and tears,

And wow, I am becoming somebody,

But not the somebody I was yesterday,

And not the somebody I will be tomorrow,

That other somebody.

On my god, who is this somebody I need to be,

I am a fool, I am an idiot, I walk the path of delusion,

Everybody trying to be somebody,

Oh my god, how my somebody laughs,

As everybody struggles to be somebody,

Who cares about my somebody,

Oh my god, stop, look, listen,

I already am, I always have been,

Just be nobody and become everybody.

It is nobody that’s what I must become,

Aborting my life long hike to be somebody,

A new adventure towards being nobody,

Cutting away every last piece of somebody,

Enjoying the game of hide and seek,

Cut the flesh, chop away the bone, I’m getting warmer,

The truth is close, where is somebody now,

I find nobody here I find nobody there,

Yah its nobody yet everybody the coolest person in town.

#zen #rinzai #yoga #yogateacher #lovelife #buddhism #buddha #truenature #selfless #nobody #somebody #cornwall #livelife #death

The Obstacle Is The Path

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The boulder blocks the way; the landslide blocks the road, the flood cuts off the path,

When has there not been an obstacle that obstructs our passage through life,

Our shoots have grown tall, and we stand straight while gravity pulls us down,

How would life exist if not for the path of calamity,

Man creates his obstructions; he makes his own obstacles and misfortune,

We close our heart to block the way, we let the wandering mind block the road, we abuse our bodies and cut our path,

There are things that we do not control and there are things that we do,

It’s for sure that adversity and stress are here to stay they are going nowhere,

Embrace them like a long lost friend, love them with your heart,

We have climbed to the highest peaks, and crossed the deepest oceans to look adversity in the face to test our human condition,

The things that hurt us are the things that project us forward to new ways of being,

The deeper the hurting, the greater the learning,

Follow the path of our ancestors, those who have walked before us, famine, flood, and plague, have stared them in the eye, and they have overcome,

Use adversity, and stress, as the opportunity to see no good or bad, accept they are what they are, live now, not yesterday, not tomorrow, now.

#zen #yoga #yogateacher #tao #buddha #truenature #trueself #lovelife #livelife #focus #adversity #stress

Put Down Our Load & Stand Straight

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Our desire for connection starts with mum.
It begins for us in her womb, gravity pulling us downwards until we drop earthbound.
Our breath rushing in to fill our tiny lungs, our umbilical tie severed.
We are Unattached yet attached now it’s the breast that we cling.

And so it begins, our journey of attachment.
We clutch, we grasp, we grip, we hoard, we collect, we acquire, we possess, we hang on to.
Like glue, we stick to our baggage, and with all its heaviness, we haul it through life.
Dragging it towards our death, the moment when we can finally wave our goodbye, the ultimate letting go.

Why wait until the dark shadow haunts us?
Dare we let go now, disengage, unattached, drop everything.
How few things can we possess,
How little can we cherish,
How light can we live,
We only lose to what we cling.

Put down our load, and stand straight,
Let gravity take our breath down to the depths of humanity,
Again and again, feel into the nonsensical nature of everything.
Then again bend down and pick up our load, stand straight and off we go.
The bag is light, and there is joy in every step.
Oh, we laugh so loud at everything that restrains us.

#yoga #yogi #zen #meditation #mindfulness #zazen #enlightenment #love #compassion #buddha #buddhism #wayhome #tao #theway

Two Forces Compete

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We desire to be limitless, boundless, infinite, vast, never-ending, no constraints.

We desire to be safe and sound, sure and secure, cherished, protected, impregnable.

And back and forwards it goes the fight between soul and ego, ego and soul,

Who will overcome who,

Will, we ever let go, let go of everything that we have collected, accumulated and brought into our lives,

No safe and sound, No sure and secure, No cherished, protected, impregnable,

Just open, vulnerable, exposed, stripped naked, nothing of you left, we finally disappearing,

Only to reappear, limitless beyond anything we have ever conceived, boundless beyond all our possibilities, a light so bright that it cannot help but touch the hearts of all those that pass on the way.

The Way Home

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We are tourists, we are explorers,

We are adventures, we are wayfarers,

We have become obsessed, we are preoccupied,

Bewitched, controlled and attached to the external lands we have discovered.

We have crossed sun-beaten deserts, and storm-battered oceans,

We have climbed snow covered mountains and walked in deep dark forests,

We have searched long and hard for what we want,

Death is close, and we still seek, hoping, hoping so much to find our elusive desire,

Wherever we are on our journey, however late we may have left it, we must U-turn,

We have to about-face, and find our way home,

We must travel inwards into the emptiness, to the depths of our soul,

On and on into the far reaches of space, a journey to change everything,

Finally, out of the light in the field beyond, lay down in the grass, and reunite with our friend long forgotten.

#yoga #yogi #zen #meditation #mindfulness #zazen #enlightenment #love #compassion #buddha #buddhism #wayhome #tao #theway

 

Are You Really Here?

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Are you really here,

Waking up.

Are you really here,

Eating breakfast.

Are you really here,

Drinking coffee.

Are you really here,

Driving car.

Are you really here,

Playing games.

Are you really here,

Watching Youtube.

Are you really here,

Cooking dinner.

Are you really here,

Washing plates.

Are you really here,

Making love.

Are you really here,

Breathing in.

Are you really here,

Breathing out.

Are you really here,

Living life.

Are you really here,

You fool!

#meditation #zen #yoga #yogi #zazen #breath #pranayama #herenow #livinglife #lovelife #vispassna #oneness #tao